Use jemalloc as the daemon's memory allocator

A full table from several neighbors means millions of small, long-lived
allocations that are replaced as routes change. jemalloc keeps the
resident size of such a workload closer to what is in use than the
system allocator does, glibc's in particular, and does not depend on
the C library the binary is linked with. Not on MSVC, which jemalloc
does not support.

Building now needs a C compiler and make; the installation page says
so.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

Cargo.lock

@@ -164,6 +164,7 @@ dependencies = [
  "clap",
  "eyre",
  "protobuf",
+ "tikv-jemallocator",
  "tokio",
  "tracing",
  "tracing-subscriber",
@@ -373,6 +374,16 @@ version = "1.10.1"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "d71b6127be86fdcfddb610f7182ac57211d4b18a3e9c82eb2d17662f2227ad6a"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "cc"
+version = "1.6.0"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "f74872d07caf508b30a21f6836e7d7016a2eaf7d9ff4f48deaa58cd8a0407630"
+dependencies = [
+ "find-msvc-tools",
+ "shlex",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "cfg-if"
 version = "1.0.0"
@@ -489,6 +500,12 @@ version = "2.3.0"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "37909eebbb50d72f9059c3b6d82c0463f2ff062c9e95845c43a6c9c0355411be"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "find-msvc-tools"
+version = "0.1.14"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "aedcfb3409746eddb02b9e19ebda1c3394f759a152e48ee875a0844d1b955484"
+
 [[package]]
 name = "flate2"
 version = "1.1.10"
@@ -1476,6 +1493,12 @@ dependencies = [
  "lazy_static",
 ]
 
+[[package]]
+name = "shlex"
+version = "2.0.1"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "f8fadd59c855ef2080decdef8ff161eb6661b86933c9d82e5ba29dc602a55aba"
+
 [[package]]
 name = "signal-hook-registry"
 version = "1.4.2"
@@ -1657,6 +1680,26 @@ dependencies = [
  "cfg-if",
 ]
 
+[[package]]
+name = "tikv-jemalloc-sys"
+version = "0.7.1+5.3.1-0-g81034ce1f1373e37dc865038e1bc8eeecf559ce8"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "1a2825c78386b4ae0314074867860ba9577875de945f05992c38815cbec327f0"
+dependencies = [
+ "cc",
+ "libc",
+]
+
+[[package]]
+name = "tikv-jemallocator"
+version = "0.7.0"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "249f09e49ab1609436f34c776e84231bead18d6a955f119f939bdc1d847561bd"
+dependencies = [
+ "libc",
+ "tikv-jemalloc-sys",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "tinystr"
 version = "0.8.4"